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funrod6 |
60. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 11:25 AM EDT
"hey!!! Im really glad that we can have this conversation about this, i do understand that we have diferent opinions about it, and we are going to have only good opinions for our wifes....lol, but is so good that we can share all this and try to see the other person point of view, because believe it or not im trying to see all the good things you told me about Jane, (but i have to say is not that easy....lol) and i hope that you can do the same for Anne.Good Morning Elizabeth The one reason I love this wiki is the passion we all feel so strongly for. It's very interesting because I believe if I was in that time, I most likely be more like Anne B. Im not saying that as a ego thing. But Im fiesty, I believe that women are equal to men. And should have the same rights. Im strong headed. However I love COA. Her life, her strength and what she endured not only at Henry's hands but his father. Some people will say well at least she wasnt executed. Well what would you rather have a slow death, in pain and misery and a broken heart or just 1 good chop ? I dont believe any of these wives deserved how they were treated. And it is because of the wiki that makes me want to know your passion for AnneB. Or the other wives. One beautiful thing though is that out of the adversities in Elizabeths life. People who influenced her she became a great ruler. And yes she was the daughter of Queen Anne B! She loved her mother and I think it so odd that she died within 2 weeks after her ring was cut off. Coincedence ? Things that make ya go hummmmmm. 2 out of 2 found this valuable. Do you? |
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61. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 11:38 AM EDT
"Well what would you rather have a slow death, in pain and misery and a broken heart or just 1 good chop ?"Ahhh this has been debated many a time. Anne may have had "one good chop", but she didn't have a choice in the matter. Catherine didn't have to die in isolation and misery if she yielded to Henry's will. Of course, this doesn't mean that she SHOULD have yielded - certainly not! But it does put things into perspective a little bit. Catherine did die slowly and in pain, but at least she had her good friend Maria de Salinas with her at the end, and the love of the people, whereas Anne had no one. But both wives died in fear for their daughters. I guess neither end is more favourable than the other. It's like the quote in the Six Wives miniseries, when Catherine says of Anne, "Poor creature - she is little to be envied as I am". 2 out of 4 found this valuable. Do you? |
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62. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 11:53 AM EDT
"Good Morning Elizabethyes, i know!! for me this place is awesome in i really enjoy been around and specially for people like you that makes it so much fun, even if we agree on disagree...lol, i also like to say that i do love COA, she was and incredible person and i really believ that was a great woman, i know that i say like a million times how much I love Anne B, and i do, but i never say that the what Anne did to her was fine, even that she and Henry where done when Anne came in to the scene, but well that is another story, what i was trying to say is that i really have a passion for Anne´s life and i do she thnk she was incredible, but also KOA, so as you can see we have something to share after all..lol 1 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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63. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 11:58 AM EDT
" it does put things into perspective a little bit.yes, i agree, in the end both of them where in some way i like, they both love a man that send them to die and they where both afraid for their childs so i´ll say they where leave in misery and the only one to blame is Henry Do you find this valuable? |
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64. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 12:34 PM EDT
"Ahhh this has been debated many a time. Anne may have had "one good chop", but she didn't have a choice in the matter. Catherine didn't have to die in isolation and misery if she yielded to Henry's will. Of course, this doesn't mean that she SHOULD have yielded - certainly not! But it does put things into perspective a little bit.If I put myself in their shoes....say I am Katherine and the King says to me....same as he said to Anne of Cleves.....I want an annulment & if you agree, I will give you a new household, I will look after you financially and you will have a title of Dowager Princess.....I think I might consider it because hey, I am not too happy at court because he is and has been messing around on me for years. Or say I am Anne...and he says.....I want an annulment, I don't care if you agree or not because I am going to trump up some charges that you are a whore, not only with 4 men but also your brother & have your head sliced off your body......I think I know which option I would rather have. 6 out of 8 found this valuable. Do you? |
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65. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 1:48 PM EDT
"If I put myself in their shoes....say I am Katherine and the King says to me....same as he said to Anne of Cleves.....I want an annulment & if you agree, I will give you a new household, I will look after you financially and you will have a title of Dowager Princess.....I think I might consider it because hey, I am not too happy at court because he is and has been messing around on me for years. Or say I am Anne...and he says.....I want an annulment, I don't care if you agree or not because I am going to trump up some charges that you are a whore, not only with 4 men but also your brother & have your head sliced off your body......I think I know which option I would rather have. "While your take on Anne's position is true, I feel you sugarcoated Katherine's a bit. Henry was basically asking Katherine to say she had been his concubine and though I'll admit our daughter in good faith...she's still a bastard when it comes to the throne. Henry was asking Katherine to go against everything, EVERYTHING, that she believed and stood for. He wanted Katherine to betray herself and in her eyes betray God, something we know Katherine would NEVER do, as would most people in that time would not betray the believes to God. Yes, Katherine had a "choice" but it was something that Katherine would NEVER do and Henry most likely knew Katherine would not either. Katherine most likely would've died for her faith if it had come to it. So, Katherine, who did not see it as a "choice" (and myself do not see it as a choice either) because it was going against her FAITH and her very being, died abandoned and in misery. 4 out of 8 found this valuable. Do you? |
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funrod6 |
66. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 3:33 PM EDT
"Ahhh this has been debated many a time. Anne may have had "one good chop", but she didn't have a choice in the matter. Catherine didn't have to die in isolation and misery if she yielded to Henry's will. Of course, this doesn't mean that she SHOULD have yielded - certainly not! But it does put things into perspective a little bit.SITS I really meant for it to be food for thought. When people debate Anne's death. I know she did not deserve to die by the charges brought up. But COA still loved Henry and was sent away. And then had everything taken from her including her child. Anne was able to spend time with hers closer to her death. Not that it makes anything better. But Im not sure which one I would want COA death or Annes. Like I said it truly was tragic. 1 out of 3 found this valuable. Do you? |
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funrod6 |
67. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 3:40 PM EDT
"If I put myself in their shoes....say I am Katherine and the King says to me....same as he said to Anne of Cleves.....I want an annulment & if you agree, I will give you a new household, I will look after you financially and you will have a title of Dowager Princess.....I think I might consider it because hey, I am not too happy at court because he is and has been messing around on me for years. Or say I am Anne...and he says.....I want an annulment, I don't care if you agree or not because I am going to trump up some charges that you are a whore, not only with 4 men but also your brother & have your head sliced off your body......I think I know which option I would rather have. "Yes but I believe COA to have followed her heart more. And that was putting her faith first. To her it was sareligious to just be cast aside for a new woman, whoever followed suit. As for why he didnt give Anne the same option I believe there was many reasons. One Anne wasnt one to just go away quietly. She had a temper. I think he didnt want to deal with anymore gossip (remember those closest to him had their volces in his ear nonstop) and put an end to it. The other wives learned I believe from those who came before the, for the most part. Henry feared that COA could bring an uprsing just like her strong mother. So his treatment was just as brutal in my opinion. 2 out of 5 found this valuable. Do you? |
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funrod6 |
68. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 3:43 PM EDT
"yes, i know!! for me this place is awesome in i really enjoy been around and specially for people like you that makes it so much fun, even if we agree on disagree...lol, i also like to say that i do love COA, she was and incredible person and i really believ that was a great woman, i know that i say like a million times how much I love Anne B, and i do, but i never say that the what Anne did to her was fine, even that she and Henry where done when Anne came in to the scene, but well that is another story, what i was trying to say is that i really have a passion for Anne´s life and i do she thnk she was incredible, but also KOA, so as you can see we have something to share after all..lol"Elizabeth As you know I have promised to do more looking into Anne B, to see things from others angles. I love your passion for Elizabeth and Anne B. And that you can also care for COA. You make this wiki a great place to be. Anne was truly a woman above her time. That I will give you hands down. They all had their own strengths and weakness's that make them so interesting that we 100's of years later still talk about. Do you find this valuable? |
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69. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 3:46 PM EDT
"While your take on Anne's position is true, I feel you sugarcoated Katherine's a bit.This is exactly what I meant only you wrote it much better. Great point LNOR 2 out of 4 found this valuable. Do you? |
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70. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 3:49 PM EDT
"While your take on Anne's position is true, I feel you sugarcoated Katherine's a bit.and if I could have hit did you find this valuable 5 more times I would have. It is so true. I think many overlook COA relationship with God. And there was no way she was going to go against him. She remained faithful to her death. Even forgiving Henry which to me was unthinkable. 0 out of 1 found this valuable. Do you? |
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71. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 5:32 PM EDT
"and if I could have hit did you find this valuable 5 more times I would have. It is so true. I think many overlook COA relationship with God. And there was no way she was going to go against him. She remained faithful to her death. Even forgiving Henry which to me was unthinkable. "...and, I think that like Thomas More and John Fisher, K of A would have been willing to be martyred rather than say she had been Henry's concubine and that their daughter was illegitimate if Henry had dared to put her to death, but of course, that was never an option for him. His fear of Katharine's nephew Charles V restrained him in that regard. Nevetheless Katharine lived daily in expectation of being poisoned. She was not only exiled but imprisoned in effect. There was nothing luxurious about her accomodations especially at the end. Sometimes her servants almost had to beg for her necessities. She suffered for years in these conditions. Horrific as Anne's end was, it was over quickly. 2 out of 4 found this valuable. Do you? |
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funrod6 |
72. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Sep 6 2008, 6:46 PM EDT
"...and, I think that like Thomas More and John Fisher, K of A would have been willing to be martyred rather than say she had been Henry's concubine and that their daughter was illegitimate if Henry had dared to put her to death, but of course, that was never an option for him. His fear of Katharine's nephew Charles V restrained him in that regard.AD Spot on again. So true, and in those times your religious beliefs for those who stood solid on faith would not go against anything that would offend their God. COA and Thomas More being perfect examples. I do believe that COA suffered far worse than Anne. Again not saying Anne deserved to be killed, just like COA did not deserve to be sent away like a discarded piece of trash to live out the rest of her life suffering. Thankfully because of her faith she stayed strong. Which is why I love her so. Do you find this valuable? |
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73. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 18 2010, 3:51 PM EST
"I dont personally think Anne Boleyn was that attractive going by her portrait. Not ugly by any means but still not that attractive. I have read a lot that her best feauture was her eyes so maybe she had something going on with them that her portrait didn't pick up. I didn't think Catherine Howard was either I expected her to be prettier. I think AOC was pretty and Katherine Of Aragon was too as someone else said in the painting where she was a young widow. But over all I thought AOC was the prettiest I also dont know why he would have been repulsed by her? Maybe because of their first meeting??I get an illusion when i look at katherine howard's portrait. she is looking down like in coa's widow pic only you can see a bit of her eyes. that makes her appear quite unattractive to me. Do you find this valuable? |
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jaclynb731 |
74. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 18 2010, 5:03 PM EST
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I have said this before and I will say it again...In my opinion Jane was not really the Tudor "sweetheart", that the show and fans of Jane make her out to be. None of us are sure how she felt about Anne's execution or when she learned of it...but to think she did not play an integral part in her downfall is delusional. Chapuys (a staunch supporter of Jane) was very under-impressed.' She is of middle height, and nobody thinks that she has much beauty.'" But you would not know that from the show, they show her as Annabelle, who is far too pretty to resemble Jane (Annabelle is too tall, fit, full set of beautiful hair, not doe eyed etc, between the two Anita resembles historical Jane more). I wrote this on another thread but her I go again. 'I'm sorry but pursue Jane, ha! She would not of been much of a pursuit if her supporters did not instruct her on how she was to act...at first they used some of Anne's techniques...but once she was queen she was to be the antithesis of Anne. Which makes me wonder, "who the F was Jane (really)?" Do you find this valuable? |
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75. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 18 2010, 6:46 PM EST
Quote: jaclynb731 :I have said this before and I will say it again...In my opinion Jane was not really the Tudor "sweetheart", that the show and fans of Jane make her out to be." I also replied to that thread and here I go again. This is from you tube. David Starkey on Jane Seymour. “The dead queen’s body was scarcely cold, but the next Queen was on her way to be bethroed to a man who had banished one wife and beheaded another. Jane Seymour in contrast (to Anne Boleyn )… she was quiet, demure, submissive. The perfect little woman. The model Tudor wife. But can she really have been such a doormat. After all she had helped engineer Anne Boleyn’s downfall and she’d stepped to her throne, pretty coolly through her blood. In order to marry Anne, Henry had made himself supreme head of the English church in place of the pope. Traditional Catholics were appalled by Henry’s ridiculous revolution and Jane Seymour was among them. She had been lady in waiting to the deeply Catholic Catherine of Aragon and she hoped that Henry too would return to the true faith. Henry wasn’t taking Jane particularly seriously. He was grooming her to be a casual mistress, not a wedded wife… Jane might have remained just that, one of Henry’s many mistress’s but her response to his gift transformed her life, and sealed the fate of her mistress Anne Boleyn… … Meanwhile the king and his new wife to be were enacting this parade of virtue, Henry’s old wife Anne Boleyn was being sent to her death on trumped up charges of multiple adultery, incest and perversion. 10 days after her execution, Henry and Jane were secretly married in the Queen’s closet. Jane took as her motto, bound to obey and serve, but she never surrendered her distinctly Catholic faith. “ He also goes on to say…(I’m not quoting this) that the only reason she tried to restore Mary to the throne was because she Catholic. Do you find this valuable? |
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76. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 19 2010, 2:19 AM EST
Hi QueenElizabethAnne,I feel the same way you do about Jane. I too share the same sentiment about Jane that Starkey & Ives do (as well as many more hisotrians), For me, nothing about Jane seemed authentic or genuine. At least Anne was her own person and up front about it, she probably had so many male companions because they were totally bored with the wilting Tudor rose, Anne was continuously blossoming, she excited them which then allowed her so much attention. Team Anne,KOA,Cleves,Parr! Do you find this valuable? |
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77. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 19 2010, 4:16 PM EST
"For me, nothing about Jane seemed authentic or genuine. At least Anne was her own person and up front about "I couldn't agree more. Jane did the same thing Anne did. However, the differences to me were, Anne was more open about it. Jane more deceptive, pretending she was sweet and innocent. I just see a different side to it. My daughter told me years ago that she had a conversation with my mother about the differences between my sister and I when we were growing up. From what my daughter told me, my mother said, my sister was sneaky and devious, would outright deny something when she was caught. Therefore she couldn't believe her. I on the other hand, would admit when I got caught. I also didn't try to hide it that much to begin with..lol. hense, my mother was more inclined to believe me. The same thing went for my daughter and son. My daughter was more inclined to admit something, whereas my son would deny. They both stole from me. My son complained that I gave my daughter a second chance and denied him one. (which wasn't true, he had more second chances than she did.) Bottom line, I told him, the difference was she admitted it, while he denied it. Jane- sneaky and devious. Anne- upfront and more honest. Not saying she was totally honest, just more so. 2 out of 2 found this valuable. Do you? |
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78. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 19 2010, 7:18 PM EST
I am a fan of Anne but I am not willing to say that Jane was sneaky and devious. We know nothing about the woman whatsoever, she could have really been a plain Jane doormat with no personality, or she could have just been putting on an act from the time she stepped on histories stage we will never know. I think the portrayal's of Jane I like the most are in Henry VIII and The 6 Wives of Henry VIII. In the later, Jane is completely unaware that Anne is going to die and when she finds out she feels completely guilty about it and even defends her to her brother knowing she was framed and set up by the courts. As for how Jane looked, she truly was an unattractive person, I find her the least attractive of all the wives. But by saying that I also need to say that Henry did not have the best taste in women, the only one I can say was truly a stunner was Mary Boleyn. Do you find this valuable? |
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QueenElizabethAnne |
79. RE: Jane seymour vs anita breim
Dec 19 2010, 8:20 PM EST
Off Topic, LOL....I'm so used to seeing your other avatar (pic) that I see you as a whole new person. Do you find this valuable? |